Frequently asked questions

Parents can agree on parenting arrangements through negotiation or mediation. If they cannot agree, a court will decide based on the best interests of the child.

There is no specific age in Canada where a child gets to decide. Courts consider a child's views and preferences as one factor among many, with more weight given to older, more mature children.

A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents that sets out parenting time schedules, decision-making responsibilities, communication rules, and how disputes will be resolved. It can be filed with the court to become enforceable.

Co-parenting involves collaboration and regular communication between parents. Parallel parenting minimizes direct contact and is designed for high-conflict situations where interaction between parents tends to escalate. Both approaches keep children connected to both parents.

Generally, no — not without the other parent's consent or a court order. Relocation is one of the most contentious parenting issues in Canadian family law.

It is not always required, but legal advice is strongly recommended when there are safety concerns, high conflict, complex parenting arrangements, or when the other parent has legal representation.

Document every instance and try to resolve it through communication or mediation first. If the problem continues, you can apply to court for enforcement. A detailed court order is easier to enforce than a vague one.